I think there is a distinction between people who are gay and people who are "faggots" (to borrow the 4chan way of putting it). Nothing wrong with being gay, just don't be so over the top about it and shove it down peoples throat to the point of making them uncomfortable. I do have some sympathies for why gay people feel the need to be over the top about it, because they do need to signal to other gay people that they are gay. As a straight person, and with straight being the norm, it is implied that I and everyone else is straight unless stated otherwise. Gay people need a way of showing they are gay in order tk meet organically. But there is still a right way and an annoying way if going about it.